Are Latino-Americans white? Black? Other? Illegal aliens from Mars? Or are we the very face of America?

Lately, Mami’s eyes have been so dark, I don’t like looking into them because I’m afraid I’ll fall in.

I have never bought into the idea that blood is thicker than water. Love and respect are meant to be earned from our children, our spouses, our families, and our friends.

Even the juncture in history and the zeitgeist we live in is something we choose, setting the scene for the spiritual fodder we need to grow and achieve deeper elevation of our souls.

Janet Mock's honest and sometimes searing journey is a rare and important look into la vida liminal, one that she manages to negotiate remarkably well, with grace, humor, and fierce grit. Mock doesn't only redefine what realness means to her, but challenges us to rethink our own perceptions of gender and sexuality, feminism and sisterhood, making this book a transcendent piece of American literature.

Our identities are as fluid as our personal experiences are diverse.

We aren’t encouraged to think for ourselves and ask questions. We are expected to accept what they teach us as infallible truths.