If the chaos is overwhelming, I start making lists. To write it down puts it in perspective.
I am always frustrated when I see situations that could have been handled simpler.
Not to say "trophies" aren't wonderful, but they should not be your driving force.
We live in a reward-centered society. When I was a child, my father used to say, "It's not whether you win or lose but how well you play the game." I used to think that was about sports, but as an adult, I realize what I create, do, etc., is more important than winning a prize.
The work is more important than the reward.
I am going to die someday and I know where I am going.