Complaining advertizes your fears.
Fear is an affirmation of your growth.
Seeing people as innocent is the greatest gift you can give another human being: the gift of acceptance.
The words you say to yourself create your self image.
Forgiveness ... is a willingness to get over what you think should have happened and an acceptance of the reality of what actually happened.
You don't have to earn or deserve love. You are love. Loving is never about how others treat you. It is always about how you are treating yourself.