If you want to communicate, use the telephone
You are someone and you have a right to your life.
Don't write with a pen. Ink tends to give the impression the words shouldn't be changed.
To write a poem you must have a streak of arrogance-- not in real life I hope. In real life try to be nice. It will save you a hell of a lot of trouble and give you more time to write.
A good creative-writing teacher can save a good writer a lot of time.
A poet is seldom hard up for advice. The worst part of it all is that sometimes the advice is coming from other poets, and they ought to know better.