Call it a character flaw -- when under attack, I counter attack. Always.
What drives me? In every mission I'm on, the thing that drives me most is the desire to find my limits-and extend them.
I don't follow the thought; "Winning is not important, playing the game is". If that is in fact true; then why do we keep score??
Have character, but don't be a character.
Popularity is not leadership.
Change hurts. It makes people insecure, confused, and angry. People want things to be the same as they've always been, because that makes life easier. But, if you're a leader, you can't let your people hang on to the past.