In my opinion, most organized religion does neither agentic service nor relational nurturance very well.
Richard RohrYou create your response to reality, and that response, for all practical purposes, is your reality.
Richard RohrIn terms of the ego, most religions teach in some way that all of us must die before we die, and then we will not be afraid of dying. Suffering of some sort seems to be the only thing strong enough to destabilize our arrogance and our ignorance. I would define suffering very simply as whenever you are not in control.
Richard RohrA person who can laugh and go with life does not demand to be in control, which is why the most controlling people may be sarcastic but lack an authentic sense of humor.
Richard RohrWe are just a little tiny flicker of a much larger flame that is Life itself, Consciousness itself, Being itself, Love itself, Godโs very self.
Richard RohrModern culture is in so much trouble, where people don't have a deep inner life, or any deep experience of their true self in God, who they were before anyone said anything about them, before they received their first medal or ego identification. That`s why suffering is so important, because suffering is when those little rewards are taken away from you.
Richard Rohr