Because I am a part of the Big Picture, I do matter and substantially so. Because I am only a part, however, I am rightly situated off to stage rightโand happily so. What freedom there is in such truth! We are inherently important and included, yet not burdened with manufacturing or sustaining that private importance. Our dignity is given by God, and we are freed from ourselves!
Richard RohrTo give, and not demand that others receive . . . that is the crossover point to maturity. . .
Richard RohrIn the second half of life, people have less power to infatuate you. But they also have much less power to control you or hurt you.
Richard RohrJesus praised faith and trust โ even more than love. It takes a foundational trust to fall, or to fail, and not to fall apart.
Richard RohrYou cannot be naรฏve about evil. You cannot be naรฏve to the reality that there are human beings and human situations which have totally identified with the dark side of reality. They are malicious. Realism teaches you to put up appropriate boundaries so that people can't do any more evil than possible. But that doesn't mean you do evil back to them.
Richard Rohr