Jesus did not come to change the mind of God about humanity; Jesus came to change the mind of humanity about God
Richard RohrYou cannot be naรฏve about evil. You cannot be naรฏve to the reality that there are human beings and human situations which have totally identified with the dark side of reality. They are malicious. Realism teaches you to put up appropriate boundaries so that people can't do any more evil than possible. But that doesn't mean you do evil back to them.
Richard Rohr