Ancients knew that you need guidance, patronage and protection as you move from one place or state to another, whenever you cross a bridge. You had better know what you are doing when you leave one group or place to join another.

In my opinion, most organized religion does neither agentic service nor relational nurturance very well.

The spiritual world is hidden and perfectly revealed in the physical world.

If you work with such people almost on the level of spiritual direction, you see that they are people who prefer a world view of order and even punitiveness. And for some reason, there's a feeling that the male psyche is going to give that to them. And if that's your view of religion, which it is for many people, if they've never come to the mystical level, religion is for social order and to maintain social order.

I believe in mystery and multiplicity. To religious believers this may sound almost pagan. But I don't think so.

You cannot grow in the integrative dance of action and contemplation without a strong tolerance for ambiguity, an ability to allow, forgive, and contain a certain degree of anxiety, and a willingness to not know-and not even need to know. This ever widens and deepens your perspective. This is how you allow and encounter Mystery and move into the contemplative zone.

Men and women are most alike at their most mature and soulful levels. Men and women are most different only at their most immature and merely physical levels.