If you want to know why you were placed on the planet, you must begin with God.
You must match your music to the kind of people God wants your church to reach.... The music you use 'positions' your church in your community. It defines who you are.... It will determine the kind of people you attract, the kind of people you keep, and the kind of people you lose.
You discover your identity and purpose through a relationship with Jesus Christ.
If your God doesn't look like Jesus, we don't worship the same God, sorry.
Where the grass is greener, the water bill is bigger.
Be grateful for who you are and whatever you have. Everything you have is a gift from God.