Fellowship is a place of grace, where mistakes aren't rubbed in but rubbed out. Fellowship happens when mercy wins over justice.
So I would say God hates war, but God loves every soldier.
Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life.
Possessions only provide temporary happiness.
God wants to produce the character of Christ in our lives because he knows that the more we become like him, the more fulfilled we will be.
The only really happy people are those who have learned how to serve.