My first reaction in pastoral care is not to explain. And again, I don't think the primary purpose of the Bible is to explain suffering. I never have, because the actual explanations are often inadequate. I think the primary purpose of Scripture is to say I am all you need in this suffering and I need comfort.

The antidote to the lust of the flesh is integrity.

Explanations don't comfort. You won't feel better if you know why. It won't hurt any less.

Instant obedience will teach you more about God than a lifetime of Bible discussions.

There are illegitimate parents, but I don't believe there are any illegitimate children.

I do know I'm going to heaven. I have read all of the Scriptures and the passages that define paradise and things like that. To me, what matters is I'm going to be with Jesus and I'm going to be in his presence. Every knee will bow and every tongue will confess. At that point, you know some to judgment, some to salvation.

A church must grow larger and smaller at the same time. Larger through worship and smaller through small groups.