Will we fulfill God's purpose, or will we shrink back and live a comfortable, self-centered life?
Limited faith, limited future. Unlimited faith, unlimited future.
Who are you going to live for - yourself or God?
God wants us to practice on Earth what we're going to do forever in eternity.
The purpose of influence is to "speak up for those who have no influence." (Pr.31:8) It's not about you.
Marriage doesn't create problems. It reveals them. You bring unresolved stuff into it.