You also know youโre surrendered when you donโt react to criticism and rush to defend yourself. Surrendered hearts show up best in relationships. You donโt edge others out, you donโt demand your rights, and you arenโt self-serving when youโre surrendered.
Rick WarrenEvery problem is a character-building opportunity, and the more difficult it is, the greater the potential for building spiritual muscle and moral fiber.
Rick Warren