When someone comes to you with big dreams, don't be too quick to belittle their ambition and dreams. Inspire and help them in any way you can. Even the beautiful butterfly was once a caterpillar.
Rita ZaharaWhen your world is in pieces, you can choose to see it as crumbling or building. Your attitude, resilience and determination mark the difference.
Rita ZaharaBut no matter what the outcome, how the friends turn out in the end, it should not stop you from making new friends. Once bitten, twice shy should not be applied to friendship.
Rita ZaharaA woman should not hold on to her man so tight, afraid to let him out of sight. A woman should give her man his space but hold on to his heart
Rita ZaharaDon't fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. For all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these, "could have, might have, should have,and might have been." Create yourself and live the story of your own unique life.
Rita ZaharaIf you ever have to sacrifice something good, have faith that God will reward you with something GREAT
Rita ZaharaI feel that we should always be a real friend, always, even to those who chose to be fake. Not because they are nice but because you are.
Rita ZaharaYou have to first believe in what you are, in what you can do, in what you say before you can make anybody believe in you.
Rita ZaharaThere will always be real friends and fake friends. It is difficult to distinguish the two because both will appear the same in the beginning but so different at the end.
Rita ZaharaSometimes you need to be terrified to your bones, in order for you to find your way to safety. Pain somewhat has this ability to push you beyond your comfort zone so that you can come back even stronger. To me, obstacles are not a hindrance but as stepping stones to success.
Rita ZaharaTears are perhaps 1% water but 99% emotions. They contain hurt, pain, sorrow, disappointment, sadnessโฆ so cry sometimes and let go of the feelings welling in your heart. Crying won't necessarily solve your problems but it will make you feel better.
Rita ZaharaLife is full of all sorts of people. You just need to know which hands to shake, which hands to hold and which hands to let go.
Rita ZaharaThe ones who keep giving you reasons why you won't succeed, are probably the ones who wish that you won't. Listen to your heart. Follow your dream. It is not a question whether your dream is impossible. It is a question of how badly you want it.
Rita ZaharaA lot of things in life seem impossible until it's done. Don't be afraid to attempt the impossible.
Rita ZaharaA beautiful person is a person who is capable of being the best version of himself/herself, inside and out as often as possible.
Rita ZaharaYou can never be perfect. But you can always do a million good things, for yourself and for others. Start and end your day with good things and whatever challenges you face in between only make you stronger.
Rita ZaharaDon't be afraid to show your feelings. Wear your heart on your sleeves. The right one will see
Rita ZaharaTrust, like love, is a word that has great power Everybody deserves their own space, in their own time. You are even entitled to keep secrets. But it is not secrets that destroys things, suspicion does. For it may take many years to build trust, sometimes.. all it takes is suspicion, you don't even need proof to destroy trust. So, if you say you can trust someone, you're admitting to something that is even greater than love. Trust, like love, is a word that has great power.
Rita ZaharaLove does not come on schedule or on time. It comes unexpected, it comes unplanned. Do not shut your doors on love just because you've been hurt before. Let go of the need to be loved. Just be loving. Others will be able to see how loving and lovable you are when you express it
Rita ZaharaOne of the greatest things you can do to help others is not just to share and give what you have, but to help them discover what they have within themselves to help themselves.
Rita ZaharaNever take anyone for granted. Never take anyone's kindness for their weakness. What's once yours could easily turn into a memory.
Rita ZaharaWhen you love someone very much, you'd have to go through every tear, every heartache, every pain. Cause in the end, it's not how much you suffered but how you loved.
Rita ZaharaWhen you face challenges, ask yourself what is the lesson here? Focus on the lesson and don't complain about the test. Everything happens for a reason. Every person you meet, may teach you something - good or bad.
Rita ZaharaOnce in awhile, you do encounter bad acquaintance, mean people, toxic aura. Don't let them rent space in your heart and mind. Don't let anyone make you so upset that you become someone you don't even recognise.
Rita ZaharaWhen a person really loves you, you can feel it. I'm not talking about the way YOU feel nor the way he/she feels towards you but the way he/she treats you. From their actions, you can feel their love.
Rita ZaharaWhen you meet the one. It just clicks. Clicking is important in a relationship. When you click, you share the same passion and worldviews, ambitions and dreams. You are willing to share your inner thoughts, fears, desires and secrets. When you click, your partner makes you comfortable in your skin, he or she knows what you need even you're quiet, knows when to give advice and when to just listen. When you click, you allow your partner to steadily be what they desire to be, while you be a steady presence
Rita ZaharaSo remember what others think of you depends a lot on what you believe about yourself, what you think you are, what you think about, what you say and what you have proven you can do.
Rita ZaharaDonโt be disheartened when you didnโt get to be with the one you love. Sometimes you just have to accept the reality that the one you asked God for, asked God for somebody else. God is All-Knowing. He knows what you need. Trust His master plan.
Rita ZaharaIf you have a dream. Believe it. Work on it. Have faith in your heart and feel it explode within you. Be sincere about your dream. Mean what you say and do what you dream.
Rita ZaharaHappiness comes from within you. If your heart is happy, you can do anything you put your mind to do. Purify your heart. Cleanse it. Make it a wake-up routine. Your environment may be harsh, difficult and tumultuous but if you work on your heart, you can be calm amidst all those challenges. So, to be happy, you not only have to work with all your heart. You have to work on your heart. You will glow from the inside out
Rita ZaharaPurify your heart. Cleanse it. Make it a wake-up routine. Your environment may be harsh, difficult and tumultuous but if you work on your heart, you can be calm amidst all those challenges.
Rita ZaharaSo, change lanes. Get your stride back. Don't stay on a road that can only lead you to further devastation
Rita ZaharaWhen you are not sure on what to do, choose a life that is most meaningful to you and make it a habit.
Rita ZaharaA lot of things depend on your attitude. If it is good that you seek, it is good that you will find.
Rita ZaharaWhen you do things for others; don't expect your good deeds to be returned. Do it because you enjoy making someone's day.
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