Fear wants us to become obsessed with some event or person in the future, a year, a month, even a day. It also wants us to look backwards not at our successes, but our short-comings and our failures. Fear losses it's grip when we stay in the now.
Rob BellSociologically, large groups of people don't generally have massive changes in their belief instantaneously.
Rob BellIf we are serious about loving someone, we have to surrender all the desires within us to manipulate the relationship.
Rob Bell