When you understand how the mind-brain functions together, you know that faith, which is believing before seeing, is the natural process of creation.
The best way to escape your problem is to solve it.
If we think it takes a lot of effort and hard work to get what we want, then our life is going to be about struggle.
The understanding of fear cures fear.
You will draw to yourself that which you most persistently think about
We cannot change past events, no matter how painful, but we can always intend how we 'feel' about them and heal ourselves.