Be sure you separate 'who you are' from 'what you have' and 'what you do'.
Your Conscious desires and your Subconscious intention must be in alignment. If your Conscious Mind wants one thing and your Subconscious Mind wants something else (counter-intention) it is impossible to create what you truly want.
If you are not leaning, no one will let you down.
You are walking, talking evidence of your beliefs.
When we think the universe moves. When we think we actually cause things to happen.
Nothing outside of ourselves will ever make us happy, because happiness is an inside-out experience.