By the time a man is 35 he knows that the images of the right man, the tough man, the true man which he received in high school do not work in life.
Robert BlyI got about half the time I wanted to write poetry. I got about half the time I needed to be a father. So there is something in adulthood that has to do with accepting the half of things, allowing a renunciation of the other half, accepting half a basket instead of a full basket.
Robert Bly