I think more and more people are recognizing how much adults and elders are actually needed. That's a gift of the sibling society.
Robert BlyYou say to yourself, Well, this poem isn't going to be any good, but I'll write it anyway.
Robert BlyThe inner boy in a messed-up family may keep on being shamed, invaded, disappointed, and paralyzed for years and years. "I am a victim," he says, over and over; and he is. But that very identification with victimhood keeps the soul house open and available for still more invasions. Most American men today do not have enough awakened or living warriors inside to defend their soul houses. And most people, men or women, do not know what genuine outward or inward warriors would look like, or feel like.
Robert BlyA person who discreetly farts in an elevator is not a divine being, and a man needs to know this.
Robert BlyThe world belongs primarily to the dead, and we only rent it from them for a little while. They created it, they wrote its literature and its songs, and they are deeply invested in how children are treated, because the children are the ones who will keep it going. The idea that each of us has the right to change everything is a deep insult to them.
Robert Bly