What does it mean when a man falls in love with a radiant face across the room? It may mean that he has some soul work to do. His soul is the issue. Instead of pursuing the woman and trying to get her alone, away from her husband, he needs to go alone himself, perhaps to a mountain cabin, for three months, write poetry, canoe down a river, and dream. That would save some women a lot of trouble.
Robert BlyAdulthood has something to do with not choosing any of the pure points of view, but living about half of what you really want to live.
Robert BlyIn the society that has replaced the paternalistic society, women are able to develop their independent and social energies much more. That is good.
Robert Bly