Abandon your animosities and make your sons Americans!
Wisdom is nothing more than healed pain.
Marry...into a family that will enable your children to feel proud of both sides of the house.
Read history, works of truth, not novels and romances
Private and public life are subject to the same rules-truth and manliness are two qualities that will carry you through this world much better than policy or tact of expediency or other words that were devised to conceal a deviation from a straight line.
History teaches us hope.