As a general principle you should not force young men to do their duty, but let them do it voluntarily and thereby develop their characters.
Robert E. LeeI have thought from the time of the cessation of the hostilities, that silence and patience on the part of the South was the true course; and I think so still. Controversy of all kinds will, in my opinion, only serve to continue excitement and passion, and will prevent the public mind from the acknowledgement and acceptance of the truth.
Robert E. Lee