Perhaps people don't come into their true maturity until a parent dies.
Well, the first days are the hardest days, don't you worry anymore. When life looks like Easy Street there is danger at your door.
Everything you gather is just one that you can lose.
Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world.
Destroy yourself physically and morally and insist that all true brothers do likewise as an expression of unity.
Let there be songs to fill the air.