On the heights, all paths are paved with daggers. -Old Seanchan saying
I think that quite often you can only find a choice between bad and worse. But I think it's worth making the effort, and I like to expose my characters to that sort of situation.
Surprising what you can dig out of books if you read long enough, isn't it?
It was easier to be brave when someone needed your protection.
It is every man's right to choose when to Sheathe the Sword." --- Ingtar Shinowa ---
If you have a sword, and the Aielman has his bare hands, it is an even fight. If you're good.