Perrin, my father says a general can take care of the living or weep for the dead, but he cannot do both.
Robert JordanA man falling off a cliff to certain death will stretch out a hand even to his worst enemy.
Robert JordanDuty is heavier than a mountain, Dai Shan.' That time, Lan did flinch. How long had it been since someone had been able to do that to him with mere words? He remembered teaching that same concept to a youth out of the Two Rivers. A sheepherder, innocent of the world, fearful of the fate laid out before him by the Pattern.
Robert Jordan