To out-group-members, oxytocin makes you crappier - less cooperative and more preemptively aggressive. It's not the luv hormone. It's the in-group parochialism/xenophobia hormone.
Robert M. SapolskyWe live well enough to have the luxury to get ourselves sick with purely social, psychological stress.
Robert M. SapolskyWe're getting along so well; I trust you so much for this one second that I'm going to let you yank on me.
Robert M. SapolskyIt's probably even the case that if you stoked up some Buddhist monks with tons of testosterone, they'd become wildly competitive as to who can do the most acts of random kindness.
Robert M. Sapolsky