Reality isn't the way you wish things to be nor the way they appear to be but the way they actually are.
Robert RingerAssumption Theory: The only safe assumption in life is that the person who assures you that everything is all right is all wrong.
Robert RingerThe degree of complications and unhappiness in a person's life corresponds to the degree to which he dwells on the way he thinks the world ought to be rather than the way it really is. and being grateful it isn't worse, while trying to make it better.
Robert RingerWhen you take action, particularly bold action, the boundaries of what you believe to be possible (your belief system) expand. Which, in turn, gives you the capacity to consider new ideas, new possibilities, and new concepts that you previously thought to be impossible.
Robert Ringer