Someday is someday, and maybe it will be or maybe it won't. This is a human thing, to worry about things that may or may not come to be. You can't eat meat until you've killed it.
Robin HobbFitz: Shall we get up tomorrow and go looking for a wild pig? Nighteyes: I didnโt lose any wild pigs, did you?
Robin HobbHome is people. Not a place. If you go back there after the people are gone, then all you can see is what is not there any more.
Robin HobbBut change proves that you are still alive. Change often measures our tolerance for folk different from ourselves. Can we accept their languages, their customs, their garments, and their foods into our own lives? If we can, then we form bonds, bonds that make wars less likely. If we cannot, if we believe that we must do things as we have always done them, then we must either fight to remain as we are, or die
Robin Hobb