When considering a man's motives, remember you must not measure his wheat with your bushel. He may not be using the same standard at all.
Robin HobbIf a man does not die of a wound, then it heals in some fashion, and so it is with loss. From the sharp pain of immediate berevement, both the Prince and I passed into the gray days of numb bewilderment and waiting. So grief has always seemed to me, a time of waiting not for the hurt to pass, but to become accustomed to it.
Robin HobbThinking is not always...comforting. It is always good, but not always comforting. Royal Assassin
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