Words have power. Use the language of leadership versus the vocabulary of a victim.
No one will believe in you until you believe in you.
The conversations you are most resisting are the conversations you most need to be having.
If there is a lack in your life it is because there is a lack in your thoughts.
Become part of the solution rather than part of the problem
The starting point of discovering who you are, your gifts, your talents, your dreams, is being comfortable with yourself. Spend time alone. Write in a journal. Take long walks in the woods.