Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
Rollo MayThat because of this interplay of conscious and unconscious factors in guilt and the impossibility of legalistic blame, we are forced into an attitude of acceptance of the universal human situation and a recognition of the participation of every one of us in man's inhumanity to man.
Rollo MayOne must have at least a readiness to love the other person, broadly speaking, if one is to be able to understand him.
Rollo MayNow, I believe in life, and I believe in the joy of human existence, but these things cannot be experienced except as we also face the despair, also face the anxiety that every human being has to face if he lives with any creativity at all.
Rollo May