Vanity and narcissism โ the compulsive need to be admired and praised โ undermine one's courage, for one then fights on someone else's conviction rather than one's own.
Rollo MayFortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
Rollo MayTo say a person is a coward has no more meaning than to say he is lazy: It simply tells us that some vital potentiality is unrealized or blocked.
Rollo MayIf the will remains in protest, it stays dependent on that which it is protesting against.
Rollo May