So often feminism is built up as this thing where you have to be perfect. You have to be consistent and you can't ever deviate. That's just not realistic.

Oftentimes, when a woman demands accountability, respect, or consideration, she is crazy or nagging or whatever.

I would love to see more acknowledgement of how challenging it is to feel positive about fatness when you can't find clothing. When there literally is not something made for your body. Nobody ever talks about that; all those fat girl clothes swaps and stuff are for a very specific kind of fat girl. If I was Lane Bryant fat, I would be joyful about fatness.

I am trying to keep growing and improving as a writer.

I love writing fiction because I can totally lose myself and I get to make up the rules of the world that I'm writing.

I can't please everyone. I am trying not to let the pressure consume me.

I love how I can see [on Twitter] some of the thoughts and ideas of my favorite cultural figures and still also chatter with my friends and family. It's a cocktail party with a fraction of the awkwardness of an actual cocktail party.