See, I donโt expect to win a prize for stoic control and dignity at mourning time. Death deserve tantrums. Beating back shocked indignation, kicks in the groin, stones, classified unacceptable, not to be tolerated, not to be wooed, not to be conspired with. Only then can music, dance, movies, plays, rap be about life. Only then can life be cherished and adored.
Ruby DeeIt takes a long time to really be married. One marries many times at many levels within that marriage. If you have more marriages than you have divorces within the marriage, youโre lucky and you stick it out.
Ruby Dee