When a child makes a mistake or fails to accomplish a certain goal, we must avoid any word or action which indicates that we consider him a failure. 'Too bad that didn't work.' 'I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.' We need to separate the deed from the doer.
Rudolf DreikursThe complaints which anyone voices against his mate indicate exactly the qualities which stimulated attraction before marriage.
Rudolf DreikursHow many things would be different in everyoneโs surroundings if we hadnโt lived? How a good word many have encouraged some fellow and did something to him that he did it differently and better than he would otherwise. And through him somebody else was saved. How much we contribute to each other, how powerful we each are-and donโt know it.
Rudolf Dreikurs