The complaints which anyone voices against his mate indicate exactly the qualities which stimulated attraction before marriage.
Rudolf DreikursWhen a child makes a mistake or fails to accomplish a certain goal, we must avoid any word or action which indicates that we consider him a failure. 'Too bad that didn't work.' 'I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.' We need to separate the deed from the doer.
Rudolf DreikursWhen children are allowed to help make family decisions, they tend to be much more supportive and happier with family life. Also when allowed to help make rules, they will follow them much closer than if rules are forced on them. All these add up to a happier home for all.
Rudolf DreikursA great many people fall in love with or feel attracted to a person who offers the least possibility of a harmonious union.
Rudolf DreikursHow many things would be different in everyoneโs surroundings if we hadnโt lived? How a good word many have encouraged some fellow and did something to him that he did it differently and better than he would otherwise. And through him somebody else was saved. How much we contribute to each other, how powerful we each are-and donโt know it.
Rudolf Dreikurs