If you give someone more than they can do, they will do it. If you give them only what they can do, they will do nothing.
Rudyard KiplingThere is sorrow enough in the natural way From men and woman to fill our day; But when we are certain of sorrow in store, Why do we always arrange for more? Brothers & Sisters, I bid you beware Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.
Rudyard Kipling