When you see anyone complaining of such and such a person's ill-nature and bad temper, know that the complainant is bad-tempered, forasmuch as he speaks ill of that bad-tempered person, because he alone is good-tempered who is quietly forbearing towards the bad-tempered and ill-natured.
RumiThere is a secret medicine given only to those who hurt so hard they can't hope. The hopers would feel slighted if they knew.
Rumi