Love comes with a knife, not some shy question, and not with fears for its reputation!
Your defects are the ways that glory gets manifested ... That's where the Light enters you.
Don't try to steer the boat. Don't open shop for yourself. Listen. Keep silent. You are not God's mouthpiece. Try to be an ear, And if you do speak, ask for explanations.
Learn to speak by listening.
You are the soul of the soul of the universe, and your name is Love.
Whoever acts with respect will get respect.