Our ego never wants to die and it will do anything to prolong its life. But the truth is, we are both spirit and ego and you have to have a balance between the two. Your spirit never dies, but the ego is all about beginnings and ends.

Don't take life too seriously and have fun. Don't waste your time on things that your ego will try and convince you are important.

My attitude toward friendship has remained the same. I will support and encourage you with all the love in my heart, but if it's not reciprocal, I gotta go. If your friends are bitter about your success to the extent that they act out, don't expect them to change. Move on.

I love David Bowie and Cher and Diana Ross. I wanted to follow in their footsteps. So I set out to do that in a rock-'n'-roll band in Atlanta, Georgia. That led me to nightclubs and to the sort of Andy Warhol experience of creating a personality.

It's important to stay in this moment right here, the now. This moment is the most important moment of your life.

What makes a gay icon is someone who possesses both masculine and feminine qualities simultaneously.

Own who you are and celebrate it.