there must be a routine to life, a framework to hang life on. Routines were what kept you sane, gave you something to do at this moment and at that, definite places to go, positive things to do. Abandon it and that way madness lies.
Ruth RendellMany emotions go under the name of love, and almost any one of them will for a while divert the mind from the real, true, and perfect thing.
Ruth Rendell