Use a sweet tongue, courtesy, and gentleness, and thou mayest manage to guide an elephant by a hair.
SaadiWhen thou seest thine enemy in trouble, curl not thy whiskers in contempt; for in every bone there is marrow, and within every jacket there is a man.
SaadiIt is safer to be silent than to reveal one's secret to any one, and telling him not to mention it.
SaadiAvoid that which an enemy tells you to do; for if you follow his advice, you will smite your, knees with the hand of sorrow. If he shows you a road straight as an arrow, turn from it and go the other way.
Saadi