For what am I to myself without You, but a guide to my own downfall?
Yet we must say something when those who say the most are saying nothing.
He pleaseth God whom God pleaseth.
Ex Malo Bounum (good out of evil).
Punishment, that is the justice for the unjust.
We must understand then, that even though God doesn't always give us what we want, He always gives us what we need for our salvation.