The best practice is to follow the advice posted on every railroad crossing: Stop. Look. Listen.
Sam KeenYou come to love not by discovering the ideal individual, yet by figuring out how to see a blemished individual flawlessly.
Sam KeenThere is no easy formula for determining right and wrong livelihood, but it is essential to keep the question alive. To return the sense of dignity and honor to manhood, we have to stop pretending that we can make a living at something that is trivial or destructive and still have sense of legitimate self-worth. A society in which vocation and job are separated for most people gradually creates an economy that is often devoid of spirit, one that frequently fills our pocketbooks at the cost of emptying our souls.
Sam KeenOur society has been eaten up by the economic view of things, which routinely forces us to work at jobs that don't mean anything.
Sam Keen