Being strong can be also feminine. I don't think feminine equals being weak. Being strong is very sexy.

Some of us just have to work harder to stay in the game.

I remember after I dated this white man, nobody said anything but there was a couple of men in my family that joked after that. 'Oh yeah, we had a party when y'all broke up. Hee hee hee.' And, you know, they laughed, and it was like light and a joke. But, you know, that's real. That was real and they let me know. And, it's almost acceptable within our culture to be prejudiced toward whites because of our history. This country is loaded with racism .

I think I'm definitely more open. You know the thing is I wouldn't have said I was closed before, but like, it's the kind of thing that you don't even think of other options. I've been dating black men for really, for like, I don't know, 10 years. You know, I haven't really dated outside of that. Now I think I'm probably am more open to the idea.

You would never expect a black woman to be the hero.

I've been in a couple with different races like Latino, white, Middle Eastern.

There's a lot of Kenya that's not like me. I like Birkenstocks, granola, my dog Pops.