Growing up sometimes forces us to confront the distance between our childhood hope and the truth.
Sara ShandlerDuring adolescence, friends bring an intimate quality of support that can't be provided by any adult.
Sara ShandlerDeath during adolescence feels unfair. We're young. We're invincible. Death is supposed to come with old age. When death breaks into our lives and steals our innocence, its finality leaves us unnaturally older. There are too many elderly young people.
Sara ShandlerOne of the blessings of becoming an adult is finally seeing my mom and dad as people, not just parents.
Sara Shandler