It took me a long time to realize this: We get to choose what defines us.

Wasn't that the point to being married? That you had a partner, someone you trusted, to help with important decisions.

Life is about experience... You can't hold on to everything

There was an art to the male posterior. That's all there was to it.

But relying on one person for your every need is so dangerous. One set of hands isn't enough to keep you from falling.

It looked like the world was covered in a cobbler crust of brown sugar and cinnamon.

It took me a long time to realize this: We get to choose what defines us.