As a woman, I have an inherent need to be all things to all people, to make certain everybody's taken care of. I know I can't sustain that level all the time, so I'm finding the proper balance and it's made me infinitely happier.

I believe in God, but in my own unconventional way. We're not affiliated with any organisation, and I have no religious education of any kind, but I definitely have my own kind of ideas about it.

I think people can find a breath and listen sometimes.

Follow your instincts and do not let other people's opinion of you become your opinion of yourself.

When a relationship dies do we ever really give up the ghost or are we forever haunted by the spirits of relationships past?

I write about sex, not love. What do I know about love?

I strangely feel better before I go through hair and makeup. Maybe that's just because I feel like me.