In fact, a case could be made that worrying about a problem actually prevents you from resolving it, because it deceives your mind into thinking that you're doing something when really you're not.
Sarah StrohmeyerThis is probably the advantage of being stupid. Stupid people just do. We tend to overthink. If we could eliminate the โoverโ and just think, then we could do, too. Only weโd be smarter doers because weโd be thinkers.
Sarah StrohmeyerMaybe we were being a bit unrealistic, but we had this hope that if we could just get into the Ivy League, everything would be set. We dreamed of Gothic libraries and leafy green quads and romantic dorms with fireplaces and guys who were not only cute but also smart and charming, and, quite possibly, British. In college, we believed, weโd finally find our people.
Sarah StrohmeyerIf it's true love, then it will abide. If it was a fleeting crush, then it will turn to dust. Either way, the truth will out.
Sarah Strohmeyer