It would not be practical for her to hate herself. Luckily, God sends a substitute, a husband.
Saul BellowThere are evils that have the ability to survive identification and go on for ever... money, for instance, or war.
Saul BellowBrother raises a hand against brother and son against father (how terrible!) and the father also against son. And moreover it is a continuity-matter, for if the father did not strike the son, they would not be alike. It is done to perpetuate similarity. Oh, Henderson, man cannot keep still under the blows.... A hit B? B hit C?--we have not enough alphabet to cover the condition. A brave man will try to make the evil stop with him. He shall keep the blow. No man shall get it from him, and that is a sublime ambition.
Saul Bellow